From: Anthony Comparetto
Thursday, 10:33 a.m.

Dear Friend,

You don’t know me yet but the only reason you are reading this now is that you are facing a big problem and it’s a problem that can get much worse than you think.  You may be divorced, divorcing, separated or going through a child support battle and the one thing you need most now is correct information.  So read on and learn.....

A little about me and why you need to read this.  I am a divorced father and a practicing attorney.  Obviously, since I am in the legal system I should have been able to take advantage of it and make out like a bandit in my divorce.

WRONG, I was very naïve about the whole industry of divorce that has sprung up in this country.  See, if your spouse wants to make your life a living hell and make you face financial ruin there are many people ready to help that process.

The problem that I encountered was that I did not know what types of dirty tricks that ex-spouses, lawyers, the court system and society could play.  I was like a lamb being fed to the wolves.  Please keep reading.  My pain is going to help you hopefully avoid those “dirty tricks” that can ruin yours and your children’s lives.

I will never forget this eye opening story about how low a spouse can go to get you.  A good friend of mine was just finishing law school.  His whole world was opening up before him and he felt ready to go.  All he had left to do was pass the bar and the money would come flowing in.  I remember him telling me the surprise he received when he was walking into his bar examination…He was served with divorce papers. 

That’s right.  On the most important day of his life he was served with divorce papers moments before his examination.  Obviously, he was shocked and thrown out of his game plan for the exam. 

Now why do I tell this story?  I always try and emphasize that no trick is to low too an ex-spouse in a divorce and you have to be prepared to counter all of them…

That’s right. You have to have the skills, knowledge and most important the mental courage to counter these dirty divorce tricks.

Now my friend faced all of the normal things that happen in a divorce:

• Financial ruin

• Loss of seeing his children

• Loss of helping raise his children

• Being thrown out of his house (with no notice)

• His bank account seized or taken

• Having to pay thousands of dollars to attorneys

Like I said, those are the normal things that happen in a divorce.  Now my friend was a man but it can easily happen in the reverse to a women:

• Financial ruin

• Losing your home

• Finding the bank account emptied

• Not receiving a penny in support

See the tricks go both ways.  While it is easier to play dirty divorce on a man (we really are naïve and are easily tricked) Dirty Divorce Tricks go both ways.

Now most people would say:

• This can’t happen to me (Sure)

• Me and my spouse will be married for ever (Check the stats)

• He/She wouldn’t do something so low. (Divorce makes people crazy)

• Our divorce is uncontested (I really love hearing this one)

Well, I want you to take two minutes to think of all the people you know who have gone through a divorce over the years.  Think about all of the horror stories that you have heard of…Still think that it could not happen to you?

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 O.K. you have taken a few minutes to think about the horror stories.  You have taken the first step to protect yourself (subscribing to our tips and tricks newsletter).  Now you ask:  How can I really protect myself?

You need to have the right information…at your fingertips…or else.

Again back to my story.  I did not really understand what happens in a divorce.  Over the years I have found that divorce attorneys are really not like regular attorneys. (I know people think how can something be worse than a regular attorney)  Take my advice they are different.  There job is to make money off your misery….They don’t care one bit about you or your problem."

Your divorce attorney does not care about you and your problem.  You are there for the sole purpose of putting his kids through college or to pay for his sports car.  Once you get that through your head you can start to understand how the whole system is set up against you. 

To you this is the most personal thing that you can go through in your life.  You have to air out your dirty laundry with a stranger….and this stranger does not really care.

Now to make matters worse here is your second free tip:

Yes, you will be going in front of a person, (a judge) who could care less whether you are financially ruined by this divorce.  The judge’s only care is that your case proceeds orderly through the courtroom.  Now you may have noticed that I said orderly and not quickly.  The judge does not care if your divorce takes 1 year or 4 years to get through the court system.

In fact I appeared before one judge (remember I am an attorney) in a civil case.  Right before my civil case hearing was a divorce hearing.  I sat and chatted with the judge and he candidly told me that he had grown up with these kids.  I asked him what he meant.  He said that this couple had been fighting for over 15 years over various things.  He said that he had grown up with their kids because every couple of months their parents would come and fight over them. 

That is not only SAD but it is horrible to think about.  Over 15 years of fighting and I am sure that all that they had accomplished was to screw up their children.

Again, the only way to get out of a divorce with your sanity is to understand what horrible things can happen to you.  Once you understand the tricks of the trade you can prevent them.

I always love an example from my childhood.  Remember back to when you were a child and an older relative or uncle would take his finger and put it on your chest.  He would say, “what’s that?”  The moment you looked down he would pop you in the face.  This is a common childhood prank.  Well after you had seen the trick played on others or yourself you could recognize what they were trying to pull. 

This is what we want to teach you. 

You may have noticed that we will not show you how to pull dirty tricks on your ex-spouse.  I have been through the hell of having it pulled on me and will NEVER, NEVER, NEVER teach or advocate anyone pulling a dirty divorce trick.

Think about it.  Your ex-spouse, her attorney and probably your attorney wants the divorce to continue on and on (remember the couple above who fought for 15 years) Our job is to teach you how to stop the insanity of divorce.

Have people used our information to pull dirty tricks on their ex-wives and husbands.  I am sure they have but I say shame on them.

So what do you need to know to protect yourself from those Dirty Divorce Tricks? 

Here is just a little of what we show you:

1. How to "WIN" outside of the court system. (That’s right outside of it)
   
   

2. How to keep your attorney from bleeding you dry while not listening to a word you say.  (Remember I am an attorney.....I know the game).
   
   

3. How to know when you are being set up bad!  
   
   

4. How a man can win custody of his children. (this is worth any price)
   
   

5. How to keep your kids from being put in the middle of a messy divorce. 
   
   

6. How to stop the cycle of anger and hate that comes out of every divorce.
   
   

7. Tactics to get your spouse angry at anyone but you.
   
   

8. How to come out of a divorce with 110% of your honor and integrity no matter how dirty the divorce gets.
   
   

9. How to get your attorney to really listen to what you are saying and to really give your case his all.
   
   

10. How to control and manage your ex-spouse's new boyfriend or girlfriend to protect the children.
    
    

11. What the judge really wants to hear from you in court.
    
    

12. How to keep your words from getting twisted by the attorneys.
    
    

13. How to get your Divorce Attorney to actually call you back.
    
    

14. 5 Super tactics to stop the stress and anxiety divorce gives you.
    
    

15. How to defeat the "Disneyland Dad or Mom" (you know what this is)
    
    

16. How to defeat the "Disappointing Dad or Mom" (You have seen the look on your children's faces)
    
    

17. Little known tactics to shorten the time for a divorce. 
    
    

18. The correct way to handle picking up and dropping off the children (No more drop offs at the Mc Donald's or Supermarket)
    
    

19. The five most important clauses to have in your divorce order
    
    

20. How to modify your child support.
    
    

21. How to control "Out Of Control" Lawyers.
    
    

22. How to control an "Out of Control" ex-spouse.
    
    

23. Who to talk to and more important...Who Not To Talk To About Your Divorce.
    
    

24. What to immediately do when you feel the "system is out to get you"
    
    

25. How To Stop The War of The Roses for GOOD!
    

Well let me again tell you my personal story.  Remember, I was the attorney who was getting the shaft in my personal divorce.  Well let me tell you this

Not only have I seen the tricks played but also I learned that I couldn’t win in divorce court.  I had the double whammy. 

See the court system knew I was an attorney.  Therefore, they figured that I was

• Trying to hide money

• Trying to work the system

• Taking advantage of the poor wife

• Basically that I should lose

I fell in trap after trap.  I thought the court system would be fair, impartial and that justice would be done…he. he.  I finally had to develop a system where I could win outside of the court system.  I always thought that this was a funny one.  An attorney who couldn’t win in the court system developing a way to win outside of it.

So myself and countless others that I have taught have used these techniques to avoid dirty divorce tricks and win outside of the court system.  That is the ultimate goal.  To get out of the court system and get back along with our lives.  All we really want out of the divorce is

1. To have either custody or quality parenting time with our children

2. To be treated reasonably when it comes to financial matters

And finally

When you receive our system “Defend against Dirty Divorce Tricks" you get the following information and much more:

• How to save thousands in attorneys fees

• How to spot when you are being set up

• How to use the internet to monitor your case, ex spouse and children

• What to say in court and even more important what not to say

• How to keep your words from being twisted

• How to get your attorney to spend time on your case and maybe even care

• How to get your ex spouse to stop the trying to hurt you and the children

• 5 absolute clauses you have to have in your final divorce decree to save your future

• How to get a bad or biased judge off your case

• 11 powerful techniques for keeping your divorce from hurting and ruining your children's lives

• How to not become a "Divorce Horror Story"

• How not to become a "Divorce Crazy Person"

• When to fire your attorney

• How to hire and keep the right attorney

• How to control your Divorce Attorney not have him control you

• How to maintain your dignity, honor, sanity and finances in a dirty divorce

• How to deal with the new girlfriend or boyfriend 

• How to stop your divorce if you want to

• How to make your spouse not want to "screw you" and think it is his/her idea

• And much, much more

I really believe strongly in this system and the information that we provide to you. 

What others are saying about the "Stop Dirty Divorce System"

Dear Aj,

Your tips as always are great.  I have written to you before and appreciate your answers.  
Here is something dirty that happened to me.  My estranged husband it seems married me 
with a last name that is not his actual last name. He has never had his name legally changed to 
the one he goes by. His first marriage was fraudulent. He married a foreign girl under the promise 
he would get money.  If nothing else  your info has taught me to really check a person out 
and know much more about them......lol

Sincerely, L

 AJ,

I wrote you some time ago about my situation where I had been married  only 2 years and she 
wanted an ungodly amount of Alimony, my house, car and  our 2 yr old son.  I am happy to report that 
my divorce is now final and I kept my house, my car, most of my property and I 
have custody of our two year old son which as I understand it is very difficult to accomplish.  

What's even more ironic is that you were right my ex did all of it to herself.  
As I recall all of the details it seems that the more she tried to hurt me in the process of things, 
the more she ultimately hurt herself.  There is something to be said for dotting your i's and crossing your
t's and for  keeping silent until you MUST speak and sticking to the facts and no truer truth was ever said 
when the statement was made....

Anyway, thanks for all your tips and suggestions.  Have a great weekend!

 Email, R

I do appreciate all of the advice and real life stores that you share with me.  
Thanks much.  The wife told me that she wanted to separate on the very 
day that I returned to the states (I was gone from home appx  ten months since 
9/11 and must leave again for four months in the Spring.  I haven't been serve papers...AS YET.  

But I won't be surprised

Dear A.J.

Your advice is what I recommend to everyone to say nothing to any one
 in her family. Any thing you say will be used against you later.It will be
 taken out of context and utilized for the gain of the other side. 
You said to Always remember BLOOD is THICKER than 
WATER or a marriage certificate.

Email.  B.

Hey A.J. you were right this is the “Dirtiest Trick Ever”

You talked about ex-wives and husbands spying.  This really happened to a friend of mine 
who is now getting divorced.

 While still together, his wife put one of those 
tracking" programs on their  shared computer, unbeknownst to him.  
When she left him, she was still able to access his activities from a remote location. 
Once he was able to figure  this out, he erased his entire hard drive, 
but  unfortunately, forgot to password protect his internet account.   
He merely called the  ISP and had her name removed from the account.)  
She was then  able to access his internet account from a remote location and via a 
"password sniffing" program, was able to access all of his free internet  email accounts. 
(i.e. yahoo,hotmail etc) In addition, he would be chatting on the yahoo messenger 
and for no apparent  reason, be disconnected with a message "you have been 
logged off because this account has been logged on to from another location." True story.

p.s. when password protecting your internet account,
be certain to touch base with both the billing and technical support departments.

By email, R.

The names, states and address have been changed and deleted to protect the privacy of our subscribers. 
We keep no record or any information on any subscribers.

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Note:  Whether you receive our information or not, I highly recommend that you study all you can on the divorce system.  Remember knowledge is power and you need every bit of help you can get to make it through divorce with your sanity.

P.S.  Did you know that many men and women are pushed to violence by the dirty tricks that the divorce system plays on them.  Do not be one of these people who are pushed to desperation and desperate measures.  Knowledge is power and you can use that power to survive a divorce.

P.S.S.  I really hope that your case is one of the few where your ex-wife or ex-husband is reasonable and plays fair.  Divorce is called where you see good people at their absolute worst.  I hope that you never, ever have to use the information that you will learn from us.  It is really sad that things get so ugly in our system.

P.S.S.S. Always remember protect yourself and your children.  Do what is right and honorable in a divorce so that you can always keep your head held high.  Defend yourself from the dirty divorce tricks we show you but never use them.

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